There's never a good break up. No matter how gentle you want it to be, it's still gonna be heavy. For this instance, it wasn't as bad.....I have just been waiting it to come from him. All I wanted was his decision...if he's in, I know that I will still continue to commit. If he wants out, I also know it's time to go. From what I got from him....I don't see any reason why I would still continue to commit to someone who wouldn't commit. I rest my case.