When we find ourselves attracted to somebody often we think that this person is going to fulfil all our dreams... be the perfect partner. This is a myth. No one person will give you everything. To put all your eggs in one basket will inevitably lead to disappointment. Our greatest expectations can be the greatest source of our disappointments. By concentrating all our efforts and reliance on one person the pressure is really on... on for that other person. If they don't produce the goods, they will have failed you. You will add more pressure and eventually... things will blow-up.